If you dont have the time, money or energy to plan and execute the perfect date, youre not alone. The good news is you can set up a romantic evening in just a few minutes and without any cost. Use these easy ideas to turn any evening at home into a romantic rendezvous. 1. Location Pick a spot outside like the hammock, lawn furniture or simply throw a blanket down. The stars make great romantic scenery. If youre staying in, pick a room you dont normally spend a lot of time in. It will help keep your minds off daily routines. Throwing pillows and blankets on the floor in front of the fireplace is very romantic. If you have children, put away any toys, bottles and clothing they may have left in the room so youre not thinking of them during your romantic evening. 2. Lighting Romance is about atmosphere, bright lights at night wont do. Turn the lights down. If you cant turn them down, you may want to unscrew a bulb or two to create a soft look in the room. You can light some candles. One or one hundred, its up to you. Always take care when burning candles, dont leave unattended and dont burn them under curtains or other flammable items. Hanging a string of white lights somewhere in the room will create the feeling of warmth and passion. A sting of white lights will also look very romantic outside in a tree, on a porch or railing. If your location is outside, you can light torches and citronella candles to keep the bugs away. 3. Music Being in a good mood is key to pulling off a romantic evening and nothing can change your mood as quickly as music. Turn on the radio. Play music that makes you feel good and upbeat. It doesnt have to be boring elevator music, in fact that could make you and your partner drowsy. If you dont want commercial interruptions you can play your favorite CDs or tapes. 4. Edibles Grab a nice looking dish and raid the cupboards. The typical romantic snack foods are: cheese, crackers, grapes, and strawberries. But if you dont have these items anything bite size will do such as peanuts, pretzels, cut vegetables, etc. Put any drinks in wine glasses. Wine, beer, soda, fruit drinks and even water are more enticing when served in wine glasses. 5. Alone Time This is time for just the two of you. No company, no distractions. Turn off cell phones and pagers; let the telephone answering machine get the calls. If you have kids, put them to bed before starting your date. Schedule this time like an important appointment. At least two hours should be set aside. The evening doesnt have to be perfect. If something goes wrong, it doesnt have to be ruined. Be optimistic, go with the flow and continue. And when planning your next romantic rendezvous make a few minor changes for variety. Be creative and enjoy! |
